Recently, British Vogue stirred up a lot of talk by saying it’s embarrassing to have a boyfriend these days. At first, it sounds harsh. But if you look closer, it’s not just about fashion or appearance. It’s about a bigger issue with how many men behave and show up in relationships today.
Men nowadays often come across as too soft, passive, or unsure of themselves. It’s not about rejecting sensitivity or growth, but when every conversation feels like walking on eggshells, and emotional responsibility is shrugged off, it gets exhausting. Many men neglect basic self-respect, not only in how they look but in how they treat others. Things like cancelling plans last minute, ignoring important conversations, or acting indifferent can feel like a constant letdown.
There is also this strange trend where some men avoid taking care of their appearance. It’s as if grooming and style are optional or even unmanly. Yet, self-care is not about vanity. It’s about showing respect for yourself and the people around you. When someone doesn’t put in the effort to look and act their best, it sends a message of complacency.
The problem is not with having a boyfriend. It’s with the idea of settling for someone who doesn’t show up fully. Confidence, kindness, and responsibility still matter. They are what make a relationship worth having, not just the latest hairstyle or trendy outfit.
At La Formule, we believe true care starts with yourself. That means taking time to look after your skin, your style, and your attitude. Our products are designed for men who want to bring their best every day without overcomplicating things. Because real confidence comes from simple, consistent care, inside and out.
If you want to stop being the embarrassing boyfriend, start by respecting yourself first.